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What determines whether atoms form an ionic lattice, share electron density, or produce a bond with mixed character?
Introductory bond labels describe limiting patterns within a broader electronic continuum.
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Atoms do not bond because they are trying to complete a rule. Bonding arises from interactions among positively charged nuclei and negatively charged electrons, together with quantum restrictions on the electronic states available to the combined system.